Over time, some words get used so frequently that one often starts to deviate from their origin; as such, we misuse the word to fit the society of the time. The word LOVE is not impervious to these changes. We seem to think of love in a very different way than our ancestors did –…… Continue reading Love as a Language: Origin, Meaning, Union.
Category: Personal Development
Breaking Through
This is a short story which holds in some way a reflection about life and our right to heal and to take chances. When our motivation is based on love, then we trust life will catch us….”Let me fall, if I do, the one I am becoming will catch me.” Breaking Through Alone I stand…… Continue reading Breaking Through
You Matter: Understanding Motivation in Relation to Cause and Effect.
Sometimes, things happen in life that may make you question if your chosen path is the right one; after all, there are far easier paths to take if one is willing to fit in and stop soul-searching and healing. Moments such as these may make you revert to your old patterns of behavior, and you…… Continue reading You Matter: Understanding Motivation in Relation to Cause and Effect.
Do Not Let Doubt Control you: Relying on Your Inner Resources
When things get tough, it is common to feel like we are drowning in a sea of problems. Our vision becomes “tunnel vision,” and we stop thinking rationally; even worse, we don’t see any way out. If you are on the path of self-transformation, then you have discovered that it is not an easy path;…… Continue reading Do Not Let Doubt Control you: Relying on Your Inner Resources
Dysfunctional Parental Attachment: Becoming Emotionally Independent
There is a deep unconscious belief that humans like animals, will grow, mature and become independent of our parents; however, although one may move out and become economically independent, unlike animals we tend to still hold on to the invisible psychological chord that attach us to our parents–the thread that binds us to our childhood runs…… Continue reading Dysfunctional Parental Attachment: Becoming Emotionally Independent
Anxiety & The Holidays
The Christmas holidays generate all kinds of feelings, joy and enthusiasm are the most common on these dates; however, there are other types of emotions which also arise during these dates: anxiety and depression are the most frequent. So, what happens when our emotions don’t fit into the usual category of joy? It may seem…… Continue reading Anxiety & The Holidays
What is a Free Spirit? The Truth Behind the Myth
What is a free spirit? When asked this question, most people automatically think of someone with very little attachment to anything and anyone. They may think of someone who lives the boho style of living, moving from place to place. In even more recent times, the term “Free Spirited” has been used to describe people…… Continue reading What is a Free Spirit? The Truth Behind the Myth
Tantra: Understanding Blockages
Blockage or resistance is anything that hinders the natural flow of your life force energy, this can be a physical blockage (cellular memory) or psychological; both are deeply interconnected. Throughout our lives, we all come across certain blockages which often prevent us from moving forward. Perhaps it would be easier to understand if I gave…… Continue reading Tantra: Understanding Blockages
Narcissistic Behavior Among Siblings
More often than not having a sibling is a blessing, someone to share experiences with, someone who can understand your story in ways no one else can because they experienced the same roots; however, there are times when having a sibling can become a peril–this can be the result of many factors but today we…… Continue reading Narcissistic Behavior Among Siblings
Tantra: Free Sacred Sexuality vs. Hedonism
Recently I received an email asking me to address the difference between Tantra and Hedonism. This person read my article on polyamory among other Tantric articles and was left a bit confused. To give a bit of a background, she had developed an interest in Tantra and attended a workshop on “red tantra”; which more…… Continue reading Tantra: Free Sacred Sexuality vs. Hedonism
