Let’s Talk About Parental Wounds

I feel this subject is one we can all relate to, as all of us have parents/primary caregivers. Today I will focus on that mark, that imprint our parents or primary caregivers leave on us–ideas, conditionings, dogmas, limiting thoughts, which without realizing, subconsciously we absorb as children. Please know this article is not to judge…… Continue reading Let’s Talk About Parental Wounds

Let Love Flow in You

As mentioned on my previous articles, these days I a focused on what is important to me, what compliments my essence: Tantra, psychology, Shamanism, Philosophy, and close acceptance of certain aspects of my roots. During this process, these past few days have been quite challenging; it is never easy to accept you need to face…… Continue reading Let Love Flow in You

Enjoy Your Life…That is Success

Today I would like to propose for us to ponder on something which may seem simple yet it is vital…what really is success. We are often so caught up worrying that to be successful is to amass material things; yet from personal experience and from people I have met through my life or worked with,…… Continue reading Enjoy Your Life…That is Success

Healing with Intelligence and Compassion

I have often written about the danger of falling for extremes; in our desperation to run away from one issue, we tend to embrace any solution, no matter how drastic readily. In the wide spectrum of time, it wasn’t too long ago when patients with mental illness and disorders were treated like the pariahs of…… Continue reading Healing with Intelligence and Compassion

Tantra: Educating Ourselves on Sexual Penetration

What I am writing here is based on my piece “Reflections: Pornography…the Silent Killer” and on the teachings of Osho; teachings which have inspired the style and techniques used by mentors and sexual educators such as Diana Richardson and Barry Long among others. Unlike pornography would like us to believe, mindless thrusting does nothing for…… Continue reading Tantra: Educating Ourselves on Sexual Penetration

Reflections: Pornography…The Silent Killer

Today I reflected about a gentleman I have been working with and what he said to me after our last counselling session. Although him and I had seen each other over the years at a few events organized by acquaintances, we almost never had the opportunity to have a proper conversation–partly because I don’t often…… Continue reading Reflections: Pornography…The Silent Killer

Happiness or Passion?

Since we are children, through movies and storybooks, we are often indoctrinated to think happiness is the main goal, one we are to chase. We are not taught that it is our birthright; instead, we are left with this uneasy feeling that we have to earn it. Neither are we taught happiness is an emotion,…… Continue reading Happiness or Passion?