Category: Self Help

When Your First Love Didn’t Come First

Throughout our lives we have met and have in some ways loved various people.  We tend to call our fist love the person with whom we first share a romantic connection/kiss; usually in our teenage years.  However as we get older we may realize our “First love” may not have come in the “right” order. …… Continue reading When Your First Love Didn’t Come First

Praising Our Children: When Praising Becomes Destructive

If you are a parent, work with or care for children, then you most likely are aware of the countless amounts of self help books out there giving tips on how to treat and help a child build his/her self esteem.  Most of those books talk about the importance of praising during childhood; something that…… Continue reading Praising Our Children: When Praising Becomes Destructive

What Is Eroticism?

The first thing that comes to our mind when someone talks about eroticism or when we hear someone talk about an erotic experience or sensation, tends to be sex and possibly love…. Simply by turning the TV or browsing through a magazine or newspaper, we can see how the media has marketed sex and sexuality…… Continue reading What Is Eroticism?

Don’t Let The Past Define Your Present

Too many people live clinging to the past or allowing others to compare them to the person they used to be; being criticized and judged because they have changed and no longer meet previous expectations.  We forget life is like a river, constantly flowing, constantly changing, and we are part of that flow.  No matter…… Continue reading Don’t Let The Past Define Your Present

How To Help A Difficult Child

Let’s talk about “difficult” children; first let me be clear this article like many articles, is simply for reference as no child is identical to another.  This is not a simple topic to address, in fact there is no manual, no parenting book, no specific advise from other parents or even our own experience with…… Continue reading How To Help A Difficult Child

Developing Intimacy

Intimacy is created when two souls manage to touch each other in a very unique way, going past the physical, connecting with the inner core of the other person.  Of course this process can be uncomfortable, sometimes even painful, as it requires being able to lower our defenses in order for our partners to embrace…… Continue reading Developing Intimacy

Eroticism: Key to a healthy sensual sexuality.

Although sensuality is often associated with sexuality, it is more closely related with the level of mental, physical, and sexual eroticism we carry inside.  Often our discontent with our body image or the level of psychological stress we are exposed to, prevents us from relating to our bodies in a positive manner.  Lack of being…… Continue reading Eroticism: Key to a healthy sensual sexuality.