There is a deep unconscious belief that humans like animals, will grow, mature and become independent of our parents; however, although one may move out and become economically independent, unlike animals we tend to still hold on to the invisible psychological chord that attach us to our parents–the thread that binds us to our childhood runs…… Continue reading Dysfunctional Parental Attachment: Becoming Emotionally Independent
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Anxiety & The Holidays
The Christmas holidays generate all kinds of feelings, joy and enthusiasm are the most common on these dates; however, there are other types of emotions which also arise during these dates: anxiety and depression are the most frequent. So, what happens when our emotions don’t fit into the usual category of joy? It may seem…… Continue reading Anxiety & The Holidays
What is a Free Spirit? The Truth Behind the Myth
What is a free spirit? When asked this question, most people automatically think of someone with very little attachment to anything and anyone. They may think of someone who lives the boho style of living, moving from place to place. In even more recent times, the term “Free Spirited” has been used to describe people…… Continue reading What is a Free Spirit? The Truth Behind the Myth
Against All Odds
Life is a rollercoaster Sometimes you are soaring Your soul happily roaring Other times you are on the decline Time turns and days go on Dreams fade as youth vanishes No day is like another Once upon a time we dreamt Every word an exciting hello Yet as time goes by Sarcasm takes hold of…… Continue reading Against All Odds
Tantra: Understanding Blockages
Blockage or resistance is anything that hinders the natural flow of your life force energy, this can be a physical blockage (cellular memory) or psychological; both are deeply interconnected. Throughout our lives, we all come across certain blockages which often prevent us from moving forward. Perhaps it would be easier to understand if I gave…… Continue reading Tantra: Understanding Blockages
Narcissistic Behavior Among Siblings
More often than not having a sibling is a blessing, someone to share experiences with, someone who can understand your story in ways no one else can because they experienced the same roots; however, there are times when having a sibling can become a peril–this can be the result of many factors but today we…… Continue reading Narcissistic Behavior Among Siblings
Tantra: Free Sacred Sexuality vs. Hedonism
Recently I received an email asking me to address the difference between Tantra and Hedonism. This person read my article on polyamory among other Tantric articles and was left a bit confused. To give a bit of a background, she had developed an interest in Tantra and attended a workshop on “red tantra”; which more…… Continue reading Tantra: Free Sacred Sexuality vs. Hedonism
Remembering You
As Remembrance Day approaches, it brought up many emotions. I composed this poem in dedication to every innocent life ever lost in war, regardless of country or creed. I utterly refuse to dismiss or demonize another human life simply because we are told they are enemies. Those who fight at the front lines, do so…… Continue reading Remembering You
Ode to Love
(Rough Copy) As I walk by the ocean’s shore I can’t help but feel nostalgia A bittersweet feeling for what was and what is And what has been revealed to me It is not a nostalgia which consumes joy But a tribute to the person I was A quiet toast to the soul within As…… Continue reading Ode to Love
Reflections: Let My Soul Scream
Today I would like to share with you a reflection from my manuscript for the second volume of my book “Reflections of a Mad Butterfly”. The first volume is already available, with many of its reflections already shared in this page. The second will become available sometime in December. I am not a professional writer,…… Continue reading Reflections: Let My Soul Scream
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