Understanding Our Sexuality

Since the beginning of time, sexuality has often taken a back seat to concerns about our mental and spiritual health. Although sexuality has traditionally focused on the physical body, it is not merely about intercourse – yet it has been reduced to an act of relieving urges or for reproduction alone.

Hidden within the depths of our sexuality lies a frequency that many have sought and misinterpreted: the “orgasm.”

The orgasm is a powerful frequency that, when used correctly, can heal internal wounds and awaken our minds to deeper concepts. Its true purpose has been distorted; our bodies have forgotten the cosmic orgasm because society has long taught us that sexuality is inherently bad. This teaching was meant to control and prevent us from seeking the freedom that sexuality can offer.

Sexuality connects us with the frequency of ecstasy, which then links us to the divine source and the wealth of information dormant within us. Over thousands of years, indoctrination has discredited sexuality and its healing powers, embedding this discredit into our cellular memory as any repetitive pattern of behavior does. To understand what sexuality truly encompasses and its benefits, you must clear the negativity surrounding it by examining how you use your sexual energy and its various expressions in your life.

Sexuality is so misunderstood that when it occurs, people often lack the intention to connect spiritually, focusing instead only on superficial physical sensations. Sexuality invokes a spirituality that is free and sees itself as a creator; however, it is rarely used as a bridge to higher levels of consciousness. Distorted beliefs have led many to think that connecting with the divine through sexuality requires limiting its expressions, which are deemed sinful.

Those who truly understand and apply Tantra experience the “fire light” of the orgasm. By finding the right partner, they can reach very high states of being. Monogamy often works well because of our vibrational state, but this does not mean it is the only way to live. It signifies that sharing a soul with someone, connecting on a raw level, is different from having multiple superficial relationships.

When one has many partners, honesty often diminishes, and one’s true identity may be hidden. Spreading oneself too thin, sharing a little here and there, usually leads to unsatisfactory results. It is better to reserve oneself than to engage in empty encounters driven by a need to escape life.

Be loyal to yourself and open with those you share yourself with—share your true self with your partner and explore the relationship as deeply as possible. Nothing is sinful when it is mutual and intended for “pure,” “respectful” enjoyment and “expansion.” If you end up spending your life with someone, that’s wonderful. However, if you find that, despite genuine effort, communication breaks down or the relationship cannot evolve, it may be best to end it. But remember, difficulties do not necessarily mean people are not trying; genuine efforts to grow are worth enduring. Sometimes, a candid discussion with your partner about your emotions and what type of relationship works best for you is needed. If you part ways, take time to clear the vibration from your previous relationship. Treat your body as a temple, not a party favor. After healing from old wounds or unresolved issues, you can offer a high-vibrational experience to someone new.

People often talk about trust as if it should come naturally, but many have life experiences that make them cautious or hinder their ability to trust. This is natural for those who have been hurt repeatedly. A relationship can teach you about trust, serving as a mirror to reveal aspects of yourself you might not discover alone. Open communication about sexuality is crucial to developing deep intimacy rather than using it as a distraction from closeness.

Many use sexuality to avoid intimacy rather than developing it. For example, during intimate moments, instead of exploring each other emotionally and spiritually, people might close off their feelings and engage in superficial sex. This often happens because they feel unworthy of a genuine connection or are afraid of confronting their fears. The path to complete connection—both physical and spiritual—can seem overwhelming to those not working on themselves. While superficial sex may seem satisfying, there is so much more to discover, and no one can deprive you of it except yourself. Fear of your shadow, outdated beliefs about sexuality, and reluctance to break down barriers are what stop you. Don’t let them.

Many fears are based on personal actions and sexual history. Your sexual history affects all aspects of your soul, and the issues of the soul are transmitted throughout your body. Sometimes, facing these issues can be painful, and you might judge the feelings as negative. However, walking through the pain can reveal more of your essence while healing past wounds or traumas.

Stop judging your fears and remain neutral about your past actions. Regardless of what you discover or how distressing it may be, continue exploring. Understanding your purpose is to gather information and understand yourself. Sexuality represents your essence, which remains despite your history, memories, or external identity.

The spheres of the spirit are realms beyond the body’s access. Sexuality was once an opportunity for humans to recover memory or connect with the spiritual self and creator. However, religions emerged, promoting sexuality primarily for procreation. I do not discredit any particular religion but rather question the politics and sectarianism that exclude rather than include. Religion often portrayed sexuality and pure desire as negative, especially for women, who were taught to serve men and lacked control over childbirth. Women need to realize they have a choice regarding having children. A child should be a cherished gift, not born out of pressure or duty.

If women had been taught about their choices and allowed to explore sexuality without fear of pregnancy, perhaps both men and women would have realized their greater freedom. The highest frequency of sexuality arises from the experience of love and is not limited to heterosexual, homosexual, or monogamous relationships. It is about two souls who are honest with each other, providing pleasure that opens frequencies of consciousness. Love must be the essence of all relationships. The vibration of love and how you explore it matters, regardless of the male and female aspects that make up the twin flame. Although alchemical sexuality may not be practiced by all, anyone desiring conscious sexuality can pursue it.

Ideally, sexuality should be explored through feelings. The third and fourth chakras connect you with compassion and emotions, linking to the spiritual self, which is multidimensional. When you are conscious, you can tune into different frequencies, remember who you are, and adjust your vibrational speed toward enlightenment and happiness.

Some mystery schools have long kept the potential uses of sexuality secret. Given our current societal conditions, this ancient knowledge should be rediscovered and embraced. We are electromagnetic beings, and when we physically join with another, we unite our electromagnetic frequencies. When these frequencies are in harmony and united by love, extraordinary things can happen.

Thousands of years ago, in more matriarchal societies, the Tantric energy of the Goddess and God was present and embraced by certain individuals. Women understood their power, intuition, and connection to creation. They also knew they had control over childbirth. For the patriarchal society to shift, feminine energy had to be suppressed, leading to a belief that women had no control over childbearing. This suppression of female energy and understanding of sexuality promoted a male-oriented view focused on action, which can lead to robotic states or a few controlling many.

Sexuality involves two human beings who physically unite after connecting spiritually, creating love. When integrity and love are absent, people often view their experiences negatively, leading to negative results in the body.

“To receive the full impact of your identity network, let the twelve helices fit into your body and allow the light-encoded filaments to reorder.” This process pertains to the mental body connected to the physical body. The orgasmic experience is a gift for remembering our highest identity. Many focus on psychological and spiritual evolution while neglecting or misusing the sexual aspect. Phrases like “I want a quick high” or “I want to evolve but avoid the feeling center” reflect our fear of engaging with sexual power in a healing and fulfilling way. There are no shortcuts; we must confront our fears and pain to discover true fulfillment. This process takes time, but without effort, we miss out on life’s richness.

Accept that problems arise for important reasons, not as punishment. Problems are reflections of unhealed experiences or areas for growth. They are treasures of life, providing learning opportunities. Although they can be overwhelming, this feeling is temporary, as life is always expanding.

Society has long imposed rigid labels: This is good, this is bad. It condemns while simultaneously promoting oversexualization and control. Sensuality has been misused to describe cheap pornography, leading to robotic behavior. Society either encourages dehumanizing sensuality or demands its abandonment for redemption. This division leads to a mentally ill or depressed population, torn between conflicting ideals.

The constant struggle between these extremes can lead to exhaustion and a sense of powerlessness. People may give up their true selves for a false image, a “reputation,” and belittle those who resist. This dynamic explains why many become sarcastic or bitter with age, regretting their choices. The superficial path or condemnation as sinners leads to regret and dissatisfaction.

Many value their “reputations” for attention but should focus on healing wounds and creating a joyful life. Discover the divine within your sexuality, and unite it with sensuality and healthy desire to promote growth. Integrating these aspects of yourself can help you rediscover your essence and live authentically rather than through a facade.

The nervous system influences your expression and experience. If underdeveloped, your sexual experiences will be limited. The orgasmic experience heals and realigns the physical body. As you grow, you will seek partners who resonate with your vibrational level. Connecting with high-vibration individuals reveals much about your development and self-perception.

Although the divinity of sexuality has been dispersed, hints of its potential remain, guiding us to our deeper selves. Sexual vibration has connected us with our cosmic identity, a concept that was misinterpreted and lost. Societal control prevented us from tuning into these frequencies, which could have led to liberation and greater understanding. Sexuality remains a means to connect with higher consciousness and leave the body momentarily.

Our population must overcome negative connotations and judgments surrounding sexuality to integrate frequencies and identity. We need to reconcile with sex and intimacy to unlock its healing potential. We were told sexuality was only for procreation and pleasure but not for opening frequencies. By using sexuality to remember who we are and alter our body’s frequency, we can experience profound growth.

In the coming years, sexuality will acquire a new dimension. People can evolve and grow with partners who are open and honest. However, if you are with someone who evades or denies the path, progress will be limited.

Sexuality is a beautiful, divine gift meant to integrate all aspects of self. Use it freely but wisely.